True Emotion Dad
Laverne Friesen is a survivor turned thriver, transforming decades of abuse and trauma into a message of healing and hope. Raised in a cult and enduring emotional, physical, religious, spiritual, financial, and sexual abuse—as well as toxic relationships that left him questioning his reality—Laverne shares his raw, authentic journey of healing and spiritual growth.
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True Emotion Dad
Healing Through Loss: A First Responder's Journey
Summary In this episode of True Emotion Dad, host Laverne Friesen speaks with Rick Wennerstrom, a retired firefighter and paramedic, about his life experiences, including his childhood, career transitions, and the impact of personal loss on his mental health. Rick shares his journey through grief, the challenges of being a first responder, and the importance of empathy and compassion in his work. The conversation delves into the struggles with mental health and alcohol, highlighting the need for support and understanding in the face of trauma. In this conversation, Rick Wennerstrom shares his profound journey through grief, healing, and transformation as a first responder. He discusses the importance of honoring loss, the impact of his career on his mental health, and the transformative power of therapy, including psychedelic experiences. Rick emphasizes the significance of understanding childhood trauma and the role of spirituality in healing. He also highlights the importance of kindness and resilience in navigating life's challenges.
Rick is now a somatic experiencing practitioner and can be contacted at rickwenn@telusplanet.net
takeaways
- Rick's early life was marked by expectations and social isolation.
- He found joy in helping others, which led him to become a first responder.
- The loss of his child in 1984 profoundly affected his mental health.
- Rick's relationship with his wife strengthened after seeking genetic counseling.
- He struggled with alcohol as a coping mechanism for his grief.
- Empathy and compassion are crucial in emergency services work.
- Rick's experiences highlight the importance of addressing mental health issues.
- He emphasizes the need for counseling and support after trauma.
- Rick's journey reflects the complexities of grief and healing.
- The conversation underscores the value of sharing personal stories for healing. Honoring those we've lost can be a healing process.
- Transformative experiences in emergency services shape our lives.
- Therapy is essential for processing trauma and grief.
- Childhood experiences often influence our adult lives.
- Psychedelic therapy can uncover deep-seated memories.
- Becoming a somatics facilitator requires dedication and training.
- Spirituality plays a crucial role in healing and understanding.
- Crying is a therapeutic release that many men overlook.
- Kindness is vital in today's world.
- Never give up on your journey of healing.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to True Emotion Dad Podcast
01:56 Rick Wennerstrom: A Life of Service
05:54 Childhood and Early Influences
12:10 Career Path: From Power Engineer to First Responder
17:58 The Impact of Personal Loss
24:00 Navigating Grief and Relationships
29:53 Struggles with Mental Health and Alcohol
33:53 Compassion and Empathy in Emergency Services
35:19 Honoring Loss and Grief
38:20 Transformative Experiences in Emergency Services
41:53 The Journey of Healing and Therapy
44:43 Uncovering Childhood Trauma
48:43 Psychedelic Therapy and Inner Healing
50:58 Becoming a Somatics Facilitator
01:02:42 Reconnecting with Spirituality
01:06:08 Messages of Kindness and Resilience